The labia minora have a range of functions, many of which may be enhanced in larger variants.
Protection
The term 'curtains' is apt - when unstimulated the labia minora close together, protecting their inner mucous membrane and closing off the vaginal entrance. It's been suggested that larger labia may interfere with sex but this is misleading - they guard the entrance and if they don't open to let you in, then she's probably not ready. Occasionally one or both may be caught up inside, but this shouldn't normally interfere, in fact it may provide exciting extra stimulation.
In addition to their role as a physical shield, the labia secrete antibacterial substances as a defence against infection.
Many men are highly aroused by seeing the labia minora in a naked standing woman, as swollen labia are a powerful signal of female arousal (and may also signal ovulation). This so called 'extra' skin is actually seen by many as representing extra sensuality, and more fun in foreplay. The visual appeal may also be enhanced by the colour. Generally darker than your skin tone, your lips may be black, brown, purple, pink...., and the shade or colour may vary in different areas; just like some flower petals... The colour may also alter with increasing sexual arousal.
Sexual stimulation
Moistening with extracellular fluid during arousal the labia minora help to lubricate sex. Many men also find that larger labia provide extra stimulation during intercourse, as they rub or wrap around him. For this reason - and those above - many women in Africa (and in the West) practice a gentle stretching technique to lengthen their labia.
*Malinovský L, Sommerová J, Martiník J: Quantitative evaluation of sensory nerve endings in hypertrophy of labia minora pudendi in women. Acta Anatomica 1975;92:129-144 (DOI: 10.1159/000144435)
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Very informative of the labia minora. I am a student taking intro to anatomy to finder further information about the female reproduction and was fortunate to find your blog! many thanks!
ReplyDeleteLadies do not be ashamed or feel freaked out if you have protruding labia, like each petal on a rose they are all beautiful, I can not understand why some would want to have them chopped off for any other reason that's not medical. Big, small equal or just different, love them, and if you partner don't like them, change your partner... I love everything about labia, look ,feel and taste..... Yeah I'm a bloke.
ReplyDeleteI wish you were my husband, he does not like it at all, that makes me feel insecure plus he does not come down at all, a thing that I am missing lots.
DeleteSweetheart i understand you are married, but if your husband make you feel insecure about such a beautiful part of a womans body...I'll email you some divorce papers.
DeleteI agree.... large labia are extremely sexy. I LOVE to see flower pedals... Women with tiny or no lips are not very sexy... nothing to play with. :(
DeleteThis is very informative, but I still have to say that the sight of my larger labia still makes me sick. I can see nothing beautiful about them. I have been growing more and more disgusted over the last few years and have gotten to the point that I would love to cut them off myself, but I am afraid I would make them look worse.
ReplyDeleteI love large lips, as a man.
DeleteI agree with you. I am very disgusted also. My fiance doesn't mind, but he told me, if it's what I want, He will pay for the surgery to get it fixed once I turn 18 in a few months. He also said that if I do get it fixed, It'd be a lot easier for me to have a kid. I am very terrified that I won't be able to have a kid because of my 'condition'.
DeleteWhat?? Your fiancé told you it'd be easier to have a baby if you get your inner lips reduced?? That is just crazy. He's completely wrong. Having large lips does not, in any way, affect your ability to get pregnant, carry a child, or give birth (neither does having small lips, for that matter). Where did he get that idea? That is just 100% not true.
DeleteYou don't have a "condition," you have a normal anatomical variation. For your own sake, get a few good sex ed books and read up (or just read good sites online, like the Kinsey Institute, or Betty Dodson) and learn more. You are terrified about being able to have a child because of your lack of knowledge. That is an awful, unnecessary position to be in. No shame, we all have to learn it all. (By the way, your lips will not get bigger from giving birth, just in case you've heard that rumor as well.)
There is no reason to be disgusted with yourself, and it saddens me to read that you feel that way. You are not disgusting! Not at all. Please be careful about having surgery. Think twice about it, then think again! There have been many reports of women having problems after the surgery--chronic pain, numbness, nerve damage, scar tissue, lack of sensation, a botched job requiring repair surgeries (yes, sometimes more than one repair surgery), etc. All things the surgeons will tell you won't happen, but that can and do. By the way, scar tissue in that area CAN make childbirth a little more difficult (not impossible, just more difficult). Remember, they really just want your money. Frankly, they don't give a damn about you and just want to utilize their skills and get paid. So they will and do lie thru their teeth.
If you trim or cut off your lips, you are removing nerve-rich erogenous tissue. You want more of that down there, not less! Isn't it more about how it feels, not how it looks?
I hope I don't come off as harsh or sharp. It's just that you don't have to feel so bad about yourself in this way, and I feel empathy for you. 'Disgusted' and 'terrified' are not words that should accompany having large lips. I can't say I've ever felt bad about my own large lips, but your negative feelings are palpable. You don't have to feel disgusted about yourself. Large inner labia are lovely!
thank you thank you thank you. i had been so confused about my long protruded labia minoria for ages since the start of my puberty.. tho i m just 17 right right... i found nothing pretty or beautiful about them. i think they are disgusting as the stick out and they look brown and black coz i m a asian. and they discomfort me all the time and i hide them inside every time after pee and bath. you info above is very very useful and i m glad that there are actually girls like me having protruded labia minoria. at least i now know that i am normal and some guys would think it is arousing appealing and attractive. i live in a chinese traditional city and i dont really get a boyfriend so early in my study stage. so i never have experience of sex and never know how guys think of this or how they taste like lol. now i can know more and be a little bit more confident about myself and down there.. thanks.
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DeleteI was really concious about my labia minora, because of their size and colour. I was reluctant to start my sexual life, and didn't want to be seen naked in any circumstances. Until my first sexual partner. He wasn't specially aroused by them, he didn't even noticced them, except during oral sex:) I got it then - nobody cared but me. now, I'm a happy sexually active nudist, I have no problems with my body, we are all different and naturally beautiful.
ReplyDeleteVery informative! For you information the stretching is performed to girls at age of. 13 by elderly women at a secret venue for 2 or more weeks! These young girls are taught the practicalities of sex in preparation of adulthood! Westernisation and gender activism eroded the purpose and value of labia stretching and equated to genital mutilation! Some tribes in Zambia, Malawi, Zimbabwe and Tanzania still practice labia stretching! Some men are known to have divorced their wives who have small labia minora!
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Without the visual function of long labia, The vagina would be nothing more but an entry way with no directions leading the way. I live them! They are Beautiful just Like The petals Of A Flower. The longer, The better. How boring would a flower look with no petals. They also taste extraordinary and carry the scent of a well nurished woman in bloom. women should embrace this advantage Over Men And accentuate their beauty in this area. Think of it being The long beautiful hair on the head of a woman. It shows her glory
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ReplyDeleteI have large labia myself, and I really didn't notice when I was a little younger. 19 now. Married. Planning on having a baby soon. I used to be so insecure and sometimes I still hate the way they look because I think mine are down right hideous especially when I bend over they are totally noticeable but oh well, why go through surgery for that when my man loves me for who I am?
ReplyDeleteAbout the age of ten I started noticing my inner lips were getting longer. I have always been on the slightly plump side and I have always had a proturding mons. I asked my mother about it and she said everyone was different. As I got older they got longer. It got to the point were I could not were loose fitting panties. My lips would rub against the crotch or sometimes get hung in the elastic. I complained to my mother and she suggested wearing tight fitting panties, I did. That solved the problem. Now all I wear is tight fitting thongs or g's.
ReplyDeleteCongs all those with long labia minora, we Africans love them so much.
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ReplyDeleteThanks for all these comments..now i feel so confident about my labia..I used to have sex with the lights off because i am so embarassed about it but now i'm ready to have sex with the lights on :)
ReplyDeleteMine is not that long compared to the others i saw online but i still think it looks gross until i read this comments ... Thank u guys so much :)
ReplyDeleteI have to add a comment even though I am a guy. girls with long labia minora are in my opinion very lucky. I think they are beautiful. My little boy asked me once what my favorite thing is, and I had to hum and hah around that question because, well he is not probably old enough to have the information that his dad's favorite thing in the world is a pair of labia minora. You ladies who are ashamed of your protruding labia are like a mountain who is ashamed of its peaks rising higher than all the other mountains around it. Nature or God gave you a great gift, please, please, please learn to appreciate those lips and be proud of them.
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ReplyDeleteIf only both sexes could be done with being or needing to be fixated with genitalia size/appearance, and get on with what really matters... enjoying life as you are. Being a male with a smaller than "normal" penis size, I wasted decades of my life staying solitary out of the fear of not being able to "measure up" in the eyes of a women. It wasn't until I met a lady that told and proved to me that the most important sexual organ is located in your skull, not your crotch, that I discovered with the right partner, size/appearance really doesn't matter, and with that came peace of mind and acceptance of what God give me.
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Yea im a bit young but my labia are already pretty long...... i kinda noticed them a couple if yers ago. I hate how the get stuck to my panties or the hamg in the shower. And i wonder can i still have kids when im married? What if my husband soent like them?
DeleteI was recently reading an article about how women are having "labiaplasty" to make their labia minora smaller. I found this funny because my labia minora is small and I remember when the guy I'm dating and I first talked about porn. I mentioned a porn star and I told him "I hate her, I wish I had a larger labia minora like her. I'm so jealous." He just looked at me and asked why. I began telling him that I thought it was sexier, I am not dissatisfied with my vagina but I think a larger labia minora is much more exotic. It can make sexually stimulate someone by just looking at it. It gives a guy more to play with, more to enjoy. Ladies, don't be ashamed because I think y'all are so lucky!!!
ReplyDeleteOh, you (probably still young) ladies who are embarrassed by large lips, please dont be. I was raised in the west, seen much of the world and now live in asia and i agree with the african men here who consider protruding lips to be very sexy and cant get enough of to nibble. Please do NOT be ashamed nor cut them off! and just wait until you find a man (or woman), who likes such or at least doesnt mind at all(maybe not from your own village or culture if they are too closed minded). Take my word, guys who dislike such are in the dumb minority and probably not worth it in terms of good sex or even good sound life perspective. One advice is to keep your petals cleanly washed because big or small lips, we dont like it if it smells. I hope you all and your partners soon enjoy your beautiful flower!
ReplyDeletePro tip, don't get labiaplasty as the labia contains nerve endings that make sex feel good.
ReplyDeleteIn a related note, don't get circumcision as the foreskin contains nerve endings that make sex feel good.
SO thankful for this article. I'm 32, have had a very active sexual life, but always thought I should be more "tucked in." After seeing images of other women's labia, it turns out mine aren't even "big"- normal at most. But I was still self-conscious! I even asked my gyencologist once, but his reassurance was nowhere near the comfort and confidence I found in this article. I choose to believe my "down there" is beautiful. We need to stop hatin' on our bodies, and start loving every fleshy inch of them :)
ReplyDeleteIts wonderful to see them and got terribly aroused. I like such women and I can be very much happy to marry one. I'm living in South Africa. If possible lets share this god wonders together: tsk.mofokeng@gmail.com. I appreciate you. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteI'm 15 and I've been terribly insecure about my large labia minora. Yes, I'm still a virgin but sometimes I wonder what the guys of my generation would think or say if they wanted to have intercourse. Every one these days are so judgemental, you wouldn't know what they would thing. All in all, I suppose this post made me feel a little bit better about myself.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was 16 I had my mom take me to the doctor because I thought my labia minor was too big. The doctor assured me that I was normal. I was so relieved!! I can say for certain that as an adult none of my partners have minded at all...quite the opposite in fact. Ladies, Relax! However you look you are just perfect!
ReplyDeleteThe more I research about the vagina, the more confused I get...originally I was researching about the hymen as I thought mine was broken, later I found out that the skin was actually the labia minora however I only had one on the right side which has made me feel a bit insecure...does anyone else have this condition?
ReplyDeleteI was so worried about mine because I thought it was really big but the comments on here are saying labias are better bigger thankyou
ReplyDeleteIve always been one to judge myself and one of those judges happen to be my labia minora. I have a boyfriend now who absolutely adores them and i told him i wanted to have a labiaplasty and he replied, "if you do, then theres no reason to be with you, there wouldnt be anything special aboyt you anymore" but i just absolutely despise them, my mom has it too, but my sister doesnt. & ive always thought i was curseddd. I know a lot of people have em, but ive had people make fun of them and call them curtains before. I never heard of that but then i realized he was talking about my parts. I realize that guys enjoy,em especially mine but,ive never felt comfortable.
ReplyDeleteI've seen labias that could be tied in a knot. Sexy and fun to play with!!!
DeleteI hate my large set. They embarrass me when go to the beach because I know that they protrude from the side of my binkini. I notice men looking at them and I just turn beetroot red.
ReplyDeleteAll of my boyfriends have told me that my labia are strange and gross, so I believe them.
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DeleteAm a Nigerian, 24 yrs old. I used to feel very uncofortable with my Labia. At 1st I thought it was because I was molested and exposed to sex @ a young age. Once a friend (female)said some disgusting things about my size and it got me so worried. I went as far as making love to a lesbian just to compare my labia to another. Funny enuf my partner ended up succking me all day and praising my labia. She said as a lesbian, mine was the biggest and best she ever had. I am married to a medical doctor, who keeps telling me how much he loves those protruding lips. He enjoys foreply with me coz I am so endowed. Be proud of those petals ladies...
ReplyDeleteGoogle Andie Valentino and you will see one of the most beautiful porn stars of all time. She is gorgeous, and her labia are huge. I can't imagine any man on earth not wanting to get with her.
ReplyDeleteYou are so wrong, her long labia are beautiful and I would love to "get with her", as would the majority of other men on here. Long live enlarged labia minora.
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ReplyDeleteI need help, am a 21 old girl ,who has very tiny labia lips, I want to know weather its still possible for me to stretch my labia lips, and how long will they take before they start growing....help pls..I love large labia lips.
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ReplyDeleteI thought they were unusual at once but now I'm loving myself more I thnk we r unique nd should b thankful as others r longing for them
ReplyDeleteHi My name is Rob, I went out with a girl in Penwortham and she had the most perfect lips, always a pleasure to go down on them.
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ReplyDeletewow...im glad to read in this blong and to hear different views.I am 40 yrs SA woman who is naturally blessed not so much but its 5 cm protruding.Every man I have dated goes crazy about my pair.I recently divorced,and got a chance to explore,it was amazing to learn how blessed I am.Im now dating a Zimbambian (Shona) man who has proposed.we so connected and talk about anything.he shared a story of a Malawian girl who had pulled her per which was so long that she folded them when she was dressing.This gave me a thought that she would love mine longer though he has expressed his complements on the current one. I like to explore and I have started stretching mine, my goal is to have at least 30cm.I dedicate two hours a day, in the morning and in the afternoon,started a week ago.I feel so deprived as a South African that we do not have this initiation schools where we can learn all of this.I am motivated to start one for those who will choose that this tradition is important.I really enjoy the cries of a man when he is hypnotized by this pair,it makes me feel so feminine,I also enjoy the feel of my pusy sucking the guys dick,its amazing.who wants to join me ladies for moral in our lambia pulling khondlof@gmail.com.for our enjoyments girls
ReplyDeleteI think this is superb, the longer the better, I would love to add my email address for any pictures but I appreciate that this may be a step to far. Keep on pulling girl and fold them a way when dressing. Rob
ReplyDeleteI think a womans large labia are simply the most sexy and gorgeous things out. Trust me they really turn me on.When surfing porn the first pics I look at are the girls with large labia.You girls with nice protruding labia are blessed no two ways about it.
ReplyDeleteOMG!!the only way I googled about labia is because itought it was not normal and iwanted ways ican get rid of them.I'm a South African Zulu girl and I've always felt so ashamed about my Labia and tought there weren't normal coz I've never really seen any before and iwould have a boyfriend who wud appreciate them but I'd think he was only being nice to me and wud get some1 who wud ask me what it is and iwould feel so embarassed but after reading this ifeel so confident about my labia and iaint gonna hide it to my partner.Thank you so so much itought it was a desease.Thank you so so much really ihave sufferer for 20 yrs with this.
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ReplyDeleteI'm not anti-surgery but I think that should be an absolute last resort. I was seriously contemplating surgery over a year ago, mainly because I was just so embarrassed of letting anyone see me totally naked... I'm quite attractive so guys always assumed I'd be ok with lights on, full exposure etc. Much to their disappointment, I was always resisting, not letting them see me down there, or even touch me there... Receiving oral was a big no no, literally my worst nightmare. I'd basically just stimulate myself while they did their thing inside me, so hot... Right? No. Not if its all you ever do. My exes would get so frustrated with me I actually felt bad, and still do when I reminisce.
This whole thing prevented me from connecting with anyone fully, I was ALWAYS holding back because of this horrible secret. So, instead of playing with good guys hearts, I just stopped having sex. I would be HORNY as f*ck, but just held on tight either till it would pass or till I could get my hands on my special toy (lol). But a toy only gets you so far in life (lol again) so I started looking into surgery, even had a consultation and nearly went in for the surgery. But something in my gut was telling me not to do it. The surgeon seemed nice but he gave the impression of being very critical of anything that wasn't perfect. I realised that sometimes people want me to feel abnormal for their gain. I'm not saying no-one should have surgery, but if it's for cosmetic reasons, just think twice. At least try to love yourself, it's been over a year since I decided to not have the surgery and even though I'm still not having sex, that's only because I'm looking for that real connection for the first time in my life. I realised if I can't love me for me, who will? I could literally see my whole life fall apart before my eyes because of one really shallow decision. I feel like it's all reversed as well because NOW I've got my sights set on a woman (latent bisexuality they call it I think?) and boy, am I gonna be disappointed if I ever learn she's dissatisfied with her body. Not that I even care what her body is like, I would wanna make her feel good no matter what she looks like but above all else I want HER to love HERSELF no matter what... Now I get why my guys used to get so frustrated.
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